Within minutes of finding out that her mother had passed away from COVID-19, Yolanda Scott went for a run.
“I had no idea what the route was, because I was crying the entire time—I just let it all go,” Scott, 58, told Runner’s World. “That’s what running has become for me: A catharsis. A way to deal with the grief of losing both my parents within five days of each other. A way to try to understand I’ll never talk to them again. If I don’t run, I know it will all get stuck.”
While this particular run took on new meaning for her, it wasn’t all that out of the ordinary; the New Orleans native has been running every single day since last Thanksgiving.
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“Here I am, barely able to walk, and she’s having a party for me,” Scott said. “That was my parents. They celebrated everything I did—they were so supportive even when they didn’t quite understand what I was doing.”
Moran was so proud of Scott for her marathons that her she had a habit of asking random runners in New Orleans if they knew Scott.
“She acted like I was famous, like everybody should know me. I tried to tell her that’s not the case, but she never stopped doing it.”
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“I thought it would be easier to do than it was,” she said. “That’s when I realized this really does take commitment. This is about mindset. So, I thought I’d give it one more shot.”
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Even if it’s 11:15 p.m. and she feels like breaking the streak, she goes anyway, calling it her “prayer and pavement therapy.” Often, she thinks about her parents while running, and about the week that changed everything.
Ever since moving to Ohio, Scott called to her parents every Monday evening—they’d both be on the line, her father talking about his latest golf round, her mother chatting about cooking. But on March 23, neither picked up the phone.
Concerned, Scott asked an uncle who lived close to them in New Orleans to check in after another day had passed without contact. Although both her parents were in good health, Scott knew how much of a coronavirus pandemic hotspot the area had become, and her mother told her the week before that they hadn’t been feeling well recently. Scott’s uncle went to Bernadine and Arthur’s house, but when they didn’t answer the door, he broke it down, finding them both collapsed and Bernadine nearly incoherent.
Although Bernadine was taken to the hospital, the paramedics assessed Arthur and determined he could stay home to recover—but he passed in his sleep that night. Bernadine, who never became lucid again and had to be put on a ventilator, declined quickly despite aggressive measures in the intensive care unit. On April 1, a physician let Scott know the prognosis was very poor due to lack of oxygen to the brain during the time she’d been collapsed at home.
When the decision was made to remove Bernadine from the ventilator, a nurse gowned up and held her own phone up so Scott could talk to her and pray over her one last time. Thirty minutes later, Bernadine passed.
Then, as she’d done every day since last Thanksgiving, Scott went for a run. Despite running alone, Scott said she’s not doing this by herself.
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“Those are the intangibles that go beyond helping you make a PR or picking out the best training plan,” she said. “I love this community.”
Without her “prayer and pavement,” Scott believes she would struggle with simply getting out of bed every morning. She had a tough time getting through Mother’s Day, and she’s dreading the upcoming Father’s Day. Like all her relatives, she didn’t even get to say goodbye at their shared funeral—it was held over livestream—and she has to stop herself from calling them every Monday.
“You have to do something to get through grief, you need an outlet,” she said. “Prayer helps me turn inward, but running helps me get it out.”
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“Not only has running helped me grieve, but I think it helped me prepare for this time as well,” she said. “It created a way for me to cope and have better emotional health going into this.
